My blog isn't my journal. Yes I do write honestly and with little editing, but I publish less than, probably, a quarter of all that I actually write.
I don't have a written criteria of what I post, but I guess I only post once I have had my own quiet to process.
I guess ultimately my blog is not the space that grows me: it's the actual writing that does that. The reason I share is because I hope that sometimes what has helped me to grow will help you to do the same too.